Hi family,
Forgiveness granted, your emails were lovely. And mom, I'm trying to send you a shiz ton of pics too so everyone should be happy.
First off, Christmas day. We're eating lunch at the Omer's. Our rough plan is for Sorella Beutler to call her fam around 3:30 our time and the tocca a me, so at the latest it will be 4:30 here or 9:30 for you guys. I would have everything on at least by 9:00, maybe earlier if you can wake yourselves up so I can call whenever the moment arrives. O mamma, Christmas?! How is it freaky Christmas!
Second item of business, Prez Wolfgramm didn't respond to my email, even though I threatened to throw up everywhere. Maybe I should have been more specific and said I'd throw up all over him. But we have zone conference tomorrow so I'll talk to him and figure it all out. My permesso di soggiorno doesn't even need to be renewed, so I'm legal here until the 29th of June I think. Not going anywhere.
Thanks for the present, not sure it will get here before I leave though. Word on the street is we have a sorella conference coming up, in some way or another Sorella Beutler will get it to me.
Guys, I'm just so happy these days. Seriously, I feel kind of like I'm in mid-stride, like I've figured out what I'm supposed to be doing and I know the Book of Mormon and I understand Italian and I freaky love these people. I love that I really do just feel like myself, but a much better version of me. I don't get the missionaries that lose who they are, and there are so many of them. Or they start teaching people and all of a sudden switch into missionary mode. Who wants to learn the gospel from them? I mean, it's not like jokes all of a sudden aren't funny now that we're missionaries. laughing isn't necessarily equal to irreverence.
In district meeting Monday this Anziano was talking about how when Christ was on the Earth it was still the Holy Ghost that ha colpito le persone, non Gesu' and before I knew what was happening, I said "Si, ma Gesu' non ha mai colpito nessuno, meno male." The native Anziani laughed. Ha.
I remember in Bergamo in my first two transfers with Sorella Jacobson, lamenting how I didn't feel like I had a personality in Italian. Don't worry folks, adesso basta e avanza.
In missionary news Herlina is incredible! I taught her on scambio with Sorella Gomez two weeks ago and it was a beautiful first lesson, poi, last Thursday siamo tornate con Michele e abbiamo insegnato il piano di salvezza e era troppo bellllllo! This woman is elect. How do we know?
Sign Number 1: When we were talking about this life on earth, and the 5 steps Christ showed us we need to do, she said "hang on, what are they again, aspetta, voglio scrivere questo, and she went and grabbed a notebook to write the 5 steps down.
Sign Number 2: She started asking about her family members that are already dead and didn't get the chance to accept all this in this life. Told her not to worry, talked about missionary work in the spirit world and said we would explain more in the future. Basically I'm obsessed with her.
We went back last night with Luca and just read the BOM together and applied it. At the end she was telling us this great story about one of the old lady she works with who's anti anything not catholic and she was like guarda, soon enough you're going to have a Mormon in this house. Ha!
I also really love how when she talks about the things we've learned so far together she says it all makes her feel more sicura, best word choice. It breaks my heart a little bit that the first Sunday she'll be able to come to church will be the first Sunday I'm probs not here. I'll just have to visit her when I get back and then we can kick it in the celestial kingdom. We were talking last night about how crazy it is we met, because we were at a bus stop we hardly ever wait at and it was late at night, and she said that she never leaves the house at night, but she decided to run and grab some stuff from the store so we were waiting together. I get scared thinking about what if I hadn't started talking to her. O madonna. God is great.
My other new best friend is Onofrio, originally from Sicily, maybe I can tell you about him Christmas.
Love that there's a cheese CSA!!! Guys, what if I just spend the rest of my days making cheese, I can't think of a happier life, ha.
Did you guys do a family Christmas card guy this year? send me one if you did, I carry last years in my scriptures for when peeps ask to see my family.
Random thing, my Patagonia boats are awesome, kinda wearing down but have held up so well considering I wear them constantly in all weather. Could someone look and see if the Addie Riding Boot still exists, in a size 9, because I would love another pair, black or brown. They're the greatest.
Okay, well, see you Tuesday!! Have a lovely Christmas Eve, hope there's snow, salute the Andrew family for me. And the cool peeps in the university ward and obvioudly Sarah. I wish she wasn't heading west for the holidays like I assume she is so she could be part of the family skype, ha.
love yooooou!!!!!
sorella bush!
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
okay, you guys are all grounded
I feel like it's been ages since I've gotten a real email from you jokers, so this will be short. Also because we're about to catch the train to Milano to see the Last Supper and then scambi with the Milano 3 sorelle.
It's actually been kind of a slow week. Sorella Beutler has been sick again so lots of time at home, I've read the first 200 pages of the Old Testament (how do people get by without the Book of Mormon? No idea.)
I did have one super amazing lesson on scambi last Wednesday night. We taught this woman we had found named Herlinda and it went so well. She accepted the baptismal invite, said the prayer at the end, there was just an incredible spirit and teaching with Sorella Gomez I felt like I was back with Sorella Simkins, because all we did was teach those main preach my gospel lessons all the time. We haven't had tons of progressing investigators here in Varese so it just felt good to feel like I was really working.
I love Sorella Beutler and I had a baby moment of revelation Monday that helping her grow was a big chunk of what I was supposed to do here in Varese. And back to Herlinda we realized that she's the cousin of a less active Ermila that we work with. Small world.
But someone has got to tell me your Christmas day plans so we can figure out when I need to call. Can't wait to see you pretty faces.
Also I'm talking with prez to get my release date sorted out. May 3rd means I don't go over the 18 months and June I go over 17 days or something. He has the power to extend people 30 days past so I'm hoping we'll get it sorted out. I told him the idea of having just three transfers left makes me want to throw up. Exact quote. Ha.
So excited about Ian's papers!!!!!! sos os os os os os sosooososososososossssssssooooooo
Okay...off to catch the train.
Love you all, be good!
xoxo
sorella bush
It's actually been kind of a slow week. Sorella Beutler has been sick again so lots of time at home, I've read the first 200 pages of the Old Testament (how do people get by without the Book of Mormon? No idea.)
I did have one super amazing lesson on scambi last Wednesday night. We taught this woman we had found named Herlinda and it went so well. She accepted the baptismal invite, said the prayer at the end, there was just an incredible spirit and teaching with Sorella Gomez I felt like I was back with Sorella Simkins, because all we did was teach those main preach my gospel lessons all the time. We haven't had tons of progressing investigators here in Varese so it just felt good to feel like I was really working.
I love Sorella Beutler and I had a baby moment of revelation Monday that helping her grow was a big chunk of what I was supposed to do here in Varese. And back to Herlinda we realized that she's the cousin of a less active Ermila that we work with. Small world.
But someone has got to tell me your Christmas day plans so we can figure out when I need to call. Can't wait to see you pretty faces.
Also I'm talking with prez to get my release date sorted out. May 3rd means I don't go over the 18 months and June I go over 17 days or something. He has the power to extend people 30 days past so I'm hoping we'll get it sorted out. I told him the idea of having just three transfers left makes me want to throw up. Exact quote. Ha.
So excited about Ian's papers!!!!!! sos os os os os os sosooososososososossssssssooooooo
Okay...off to catch the train.
Love you all, be good!
xoxo
sorella bush
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
i went to italy because i wished to live deliberately
Hi guys! Happy December! When did that happen, shoooooot. Time is getting faster all the freaky time and I don't know how it's possible.
We had branch conference on Sunday and the stake prez and everybody important was there. Varese is the only branch in the stake now and the prez spoke specifically about how to make Varese into a ward, what everyone has to do to make it happen, because it can and will happen.
He then talked about us. He told everyone that they have two great sorelle here and they need to take care of us. He said "they won't be here forever and when they leave you will sorely miss them, so take care of them now, love them and work with them." It all made me wonder if I've really done enough for this place. I know I've worked hard but we can always work harder. My time here is coming to a close and pretty quickly, and I just hope that I've done at least part of what the Lord expected of me here, found some of the people he had been preparing.
I really do feel like I've been planting seeds like crazy. Talking to lots of people, building relationships with the members, and being an example to their friends and peeps we just meet in the street of what a member of the church is and does. Speriamo bene! Sorella Beutler is always quick to remind me of everything I've done here when I maybe start to wonder. Sometimes I hate when people say that if you only have one convert on your mission and it's you then you've succeeded, just sounds like a cop-out to me. But I also really feel like I've had great success in that department. I feel like I finally love and know the scriptures, I know how to talk to my Heavenly Father, how to go to Him always and be honest, how to try and be guided my the spirit in everything I do, how to love love love love love. I don't just believe that the restoration happened but I understand why and how it makes PERFECT sense, same with the plan of salvation. Oh, how I love the plan of salvation! Seriously.
This transfer had been really beautiful with Sorella Beutler. I have to be honest: I was pretty stressed for awhile training her. I knew she was struggling and questioning her capabilities and if she even thought she could make it, so I never wanted to add to her stress trying to master the language and get used to being away from her family so I just took everything else on, and tried to do it by myself.
As a result I was just worries about everyone all the time, about her, about our peeps, our members, people we had met once on the street, people we hadn't met but maybe were supposed to, who I needed to call, how to get lessons organized and members there and people in church. It was kind of suffocating. But now that I've gotten better at asking for help and Sorella Beutler is finding her place in Italy there's just a lot more harmony in what we're doing. She's taken the lead in more of our lessons lately and it's been beautiful. Other people have started telling her how much she's improved, so even though she won't ever believe me when I tell her she's starting to have patience with herself.
We had a really beautiful lesson Monday with Gina. We brought a member that's 24, served a mission in London and is the daughter of our branch prez, and her fiance and we just talked about the atonement, it was so beautiful. I love that I feel like I've got the ability to just always be myself, even as a missionary, that it's totally normal that I'm here, with my friend Gina, telling her about what it means that Christ suffered for her and how much God loves her.
We also started teaching this cool 50 year-old Italian lady, Laura. It's really interesting because she's Catholic, doesn't totally agree with the church but still feels Catholic because she doesn't know what else she would be. She was really excited to get the Book of Mormon after our first lesson with her Monday night. I'm praying that she'll just read and read and open her heart and the spirit will help her not be confused.
Side note, I was trying to explain to her how Mary isn't our mother and she was having a hard time grasping that, but guys, I don't get it? how does that make any sense???? Boh.
Anyway, we're still meeting cool peeps all the time. We've been teaching a lot more these days, thank heavens because it is freaky cold! The cool lady Giulia that I talked to at Thanksgiving came to church with her compagno on Sunday. I don't hardly know than but I love them! Mostly her. I'm hoping we can get ourselves organized to see them soon because she is super cool, has tons of questions and wants to see us to.
I can't believe Christmas is so close! We're being taken care of, no worries, people love us, even without the threatenings of the stake prez. Christmas eve will be with Gabriele's family and company, Christmas with the Omer's who bought us shoes last week. Sorella Betuler's boots broke, plus she's always cold and John, who's American, told us to take to his wife, Giuliana, and she took us to a good place to get boots. We picked out some good ones for Sorella Beutler, and then she said, "Sorella Bush, your turn, and I was like "No I'm good with these (love my Patagonia boots so bad, I'm praying they last the next few months, I've worn them hard).
She said "No, we decided it's a Christmas present." I didn't find any boots that felt as good as my Patagonia ones so I got these cute lace up green shoes I've been wearing everyday this week. Moral of the story, we're being taken care of. It really does scare me a bit how fast time goes, I'm just trying to love each day and come home satisfied and not totally frozen every night.
Love you all!! Any mission news and let Luca/Gabri know subito!!! I can't wait. Prez Wolfgramm thinks maybe Ian will go to Rome.... vediamo! How about Iceland? I've always wanted to go there and you could be my personal guide, va bene? Vi voglio un mondo di bene! Fate il bravo!
la vostra contenta missionaria,
sorella bush
He then talked about us. He told everyone that they have two great sorelle here and they need to take care of us. He said "they won't be here forever and when they leave you will sorely miss them, so take care of them now, love them and work with them." It all made me wonder if I've really done enough for this place. I know I've worked hard but we can always work harder. My time here is coming to a close and pretty quickly, and I just hope that I've done at least part of what the Lord expected of me here, found some of the people he had been preparing.
I really do feel like I've been planting seeds like crazy. Talking to lots of people, building relationships with the members, and being an example to their friends and peeps we just meet in the street of what a member of the church is and does. Speriamo bene! Sorella Beutler is always quick to remind me of everything I've done here when I maybe start to wonder. Sometimes I hate when people say that if you only have one convert on your mission and it's you then you've succeeded, just sounds like a cop-out to me. But I also really feel like I've had great success in that department. I feel like I finally love and know the scriptures, I know how to talk to my Heavenly Father, how to go to Him always and be honest, how to try and be guided my the spirit in everything I do, how to love love love love love. I don't just believe that the restoration happened but I understand why and how it makes PERFECT sense, same with the plan of salvation. Oh, how I love the plan of salvation! Seriously.
This transfer had been really beautiful with Sorella Beutler. I have to be honest: I was pretty stressed for awhile training her. I knew she was struggling and questioning her capabilities and if she even thought she could make it, so I never wanted to add to her stress trying to master the language and get used to being away from her family so I just took everything else on, and tried to do it by myself.
As a result I was just worries about everyone all the time, about her, about our peeps, our members, people we had met once on the street, people we hadn't met but maybe were supposed to, who I needed to call, how to get lessons organized and members there and people in church. It was kind of suffocating. But now that I've gotten better at asking for help and Sorella Beutler is finding her place in Italy there's just a lot more harmony in what we're doing. She's taken the lead in more of our lessons lately and it's been beautiful. Other people have started telling her how much she's improved, so even though she won't ever believe me when I tell her she's starting to have patience with herself.
We had a really beautiful lesson Monday with Gina. We brought a member that's 24, served a mission in London and is the daughter of our branch prez, and her fiance and we just talked about the atonement, it was so beautiful. I love that I feel like I've got the ability to just always be myself, even as a missionary, that it's totally normal that I'm here, with my friend Gina, telling her about what it means that Christ suffered for her and how much God loves her.
We also started teaching this cool 50 year-old Italian lady, Laura. It's really interesting because she's Catholic, doesn't totally agree with the church but still feels Catholic because she doesn't know what else she would be. She was really excited to get the Book of Mormon after our first lesson with her Monday night. I'm praying that she'll just read and read and open her heart and the spirit will help her not be confused.
Side note, I was trying to explain to her how Mary isn't our mother and she was having a hard time grasping that, but guys, I don't get it? how does that make any sense???? Boh.
Anyway, we're still meeting cool peeps all the time. We've been teaching a lot more these days, thank heavens because it is freaky cold! The cool lady Giulia that I talked to at Thanksgiving came to church with her compagno on Sunday. I don't hardly know than but I love them! Mostly her. I'm hoping we can get ourselves organized to see them soon because she is super cool, has tons of questions and wants to see us to.
I can't believe Christmas is so close! We're being taken care of, no worries, people love us, even without the threatenings of the stake prez. Christmas eve will be with Gabriele's family and company, Christmas with the Omer's who bought us shoes last week. Sorella Betuler's boots broke, plus she's always cold and John, who's American, told us to take to his wife, Giuliana, and she took us to a good place to get boots. We picked out some good ones for Sorella Beutler, and then she said, "Sorella Bush, your turn, and I was like "No I'm good with these (love my Patagonia boots so bad, I'm praying they last the next few months, I've worn them hard).
She said "No, we decided it's a Christmas present." I didn't find any boots that felt as good as my Patagonia ones so I got these cute lace up green shoes I've been wearing everyday this week. Moral of the story, we're being taken care of. It really does scare me a bit how fast time goes, I'm just trying to love each day and come home satisfied and not totally frozen every night.
Love you all!! Any mission news and let Luca/Gabri know subito!!! I can't wait. Prez Wolfgramm thinks maybe Ian will go to Rome.... vediamo! How about Iceland? I've always wanted to go there and you could be my personal guide, va bene? Vi voglio un mondo di bene! Fate il bravo!
la vostra contenta missionaria,
sorella bush
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
focus!
Okay, I just got distracted playing on Familysearch.org and looking at our family tree. Refocus!
I can't believe it's Wednesday, or that it's pretty much December, shooooot.
Thanksgiving was great, we went and ate such good pizza with Luca. Mine had tomato sauce then a pistacchio sauce and fresh stracciatella that came on the side in this little glass: Yum. Then Saturday we had a real life Thanksgiving dinner and I got my fill of sweet potatoes. It was pretty cool because there were 20 of in total, maybe half members of the church. I got to chat up with this rad lady from Sicily next to me and across from me where these two dudes probably in their later twenties that didn't really talk because I don't think they knew what to do with me, even though one of them is studying pretty much the exact same thing I did.
Anyway, we leave at 9:00 and as soon as I do I guess these dudes say, "Hold on, are they nuns?" It was perfect, because it spurred a conversation about the Church that lasted into 1:00 am with these peeps asking everything, from what's the Book of Mormon down to anything else you can think of about the church. So Augusta and Michele, plus Luca and another girl named Michela got to lay it all out, which is what Augusta has been hoping would happen.
The rest of Saturday and then Sunday we spent doing a mostra which is basically where we get a permit from the city to set up a little display thing and then try and stop everybody and their dog to talk about the gospel. We had a handful of members come out, passed out so many pass along cards and pamphlets and got a handful of good potentials. This is why you have to work with the ward and above all the bishop. If he loves you, he helps you and organizes mostras for you and then the members come help because they love you too.
Another finding story for you. Friday night we're waiting for the bus to head up and see one of our less active families and this guy walks past. I say buona sera, he stops and asks me if ci conosciamo. I tell him no, I was just saying buona sera and we start talking. His name is Paolo, he teaches music and he's been to the states just once to play the clarinet in Chicago. I'm trying to write down is phone number as the bus pulls up and then the bus doesn't stop and keeps going. So we talk to him while we wait the 20 minutes for the next bus. We should be teaching him tonight, speriamo bene, his phone was off when I tried to call and confirm. Because it has been raining nonstop since Monday, I don't want to be outside and wet tonight.
I'm pleased with the [Christmas] tree name, well done, it feels sort of impossible that you guys had real Thanksgiving and we have a tree and Christmas is coming. They're stringing tons of lights up all over the place here but it still doesn't quite feel like Christmas, pian piano.
Well, enough for now, I'm hoping to hear really good news very soon about a certain little brother of mine. You guys are great. Love you lots. What are your Christmas Day plans? Christmas and Christmas Eve are going to be beautiful and nutzo, we're just so popular :)
xoxo
sorella bush
*It's the stupidest question ever that we get all the time. Do I look like a nun? Pretty sure the answer is no.
I can't believe it's Wednesday, or that it's pretty much December, shooooot.
Thanksgiving was great, we went and ate such good pizza with Luca. Mine had tomato sauce then a pistacchio sauce and fresh stracciatella that came on the side in this little glass: Yum. Then Saturday we had a real life Thanksgiving dinner and I got my fill of sweet potatoes. It was pretty cool because there were 20 of in total, maybe half members of the church. I got to chat up with this rad lady from Sicily next to me and across from me where these two dudes probably in their later twenties that didn't really talk because I don't think they knew what to do with me, even though one of them is studying pretty much the exact same thing I did.
Anyway, we leave at 9:00 and as soon as I do I guess these dudes say, "Hold on, are they nuns?" It was perfect, because it spurred a conversation about the Church that lasted into 1:00 am with these peeps asking everything, from what's the Book of Mormon down to anything else you can think of about the church. So Augusta and Michele, plus Luca and another girl named Michela got to lay it all out, which is what Augusta has been hoping would happen.
The rest of Saturday and then Sunday we spent doing a mostra which is basically where we get a permit from the city to set up a little display thing and then try and stop everybody and their dog to talk about the gospel. We had a handful of members come out, passed out so many pass along cards and pamphlets and got a handful of good potentials. This is why you have to work with the ward and above all the bishop. If he loves you, he helps you and organizes mostras for you and then the members come help because they love you too.
Another finding story for you. Friday night we're waiting for the bus to head up and see one of our less active families and this guy walks past. I say buona sera, he stops and asks me if ci conosciamo. I tell him no, I was just saying buona sera and we start talking. His name is Paolo, he teaches music and he's been to the states just once to play the clarinet in Chicago. I'm trying to write down is phone number as the bus pulls up and then the bus doesn't stop and keeps going. So we talk to him while we wait the 20 minutes for the next bus. We should be teaching him tonight, speriamo bene, his phone was off when I tried to call and confirm. Because it has been raining nonstop since Monday, I don't want to be outside and wet tonight.
I'm pleased with the [Christmas] tree name, well done, it feels sort of impossible that you guys had real Thanksgiving and we have a tree and Christmas is coming. They're stringing tons of lights up all over the place here but it still doesn't quite feel like Christmas, pian piano.
Well, enough for now, I'm hoping to hear really good news very soon about a certain little brother of mine. You guys are great. Love you lots. What are your Christmas Day plans? Christmas and Christmas Eve are going to be beautiful and nutzo, we're just so popular :)
xoxo
sorella bush
*It's the stupidest question ever that we get all the time. Do I look like a nun? Pretty sure the answer is no.
Thursday, November 22, 2012
aldo
Well here we are again.
I wrote like ten letters last night so I'm kind of lettered out, but I love you all dearly. Sorella Beutler is a little sicky again so it's not been the most normal week, but we had a beautiflu miracle/adventure I will tell you about last Thursday/Sunday. His name is Aldo.
There is a city called Angera in our area, and according to Gabriele the missionaries hadn't been there for at least ten years, so we've been wanting to go for awhile. We finally got ourselves organized last Thursday at we're waiting at the bus stop. This 55 year-old man starts talking with us. We just sort of chat about how he hasn't taken the bus in 40 some years but drove into town with his sister to get his hand checked at the doctor because a rock fell and crushed it (yes Italians will tell you their life story if you just listen).
We then tell him a bit about who we are and what we do. Get on the bus. We head toward the back where there are more seats and hope he comes too. But he's hanging out at the front of the bus for awhile and we're worried. Then he suddenly runs off the bus, goes and buys a ticket, comes back and sits by us.
So we keep chatting it up. About his mother who died six months ago, about the home they have in Taranto, where they're from, about his four year-old daughter. We tell him about the Book of Mormon and how there's life after this one. Then he pulls out of this funny little plastic briefcase an invitation to his daughter's birthday party that Sunday. We give him a plan of salvation pamphlet. He gets off the bus, we head on to Angera.
Sunday, we obviously go to the birthday party. We get to his town, where I've never set foot. We head to the only open place, a bar/tabaccaria and ask how to get to Via San Michele. And no one knows. So they ask what we're looking for, and I said, "Um...a family, his name is Aldo."
This bad a guy in a wheel chair tries to pull up a map on his phone but can't get to the internet, all eight people in the bar are trying to figure out if any of them know the via and the people that work there look for their map of the area.
Meanwhile wheelchair man heads over to the adjoining room and comes back and asks if we're looking for Aldo the mechanic. I tell him I think so, and he tells us to go down the next street, down a hill, up another hill, past a cemetery and then we'll take the road that runs off to the left and that's where Aldo lives.
We go, we make it, and we spend a few hours with a handfull of 5 year-olds from preschool but mostly Aldo's 7,000 siblings and nieces. He is one of 11 children! I got to talk to a few of them about what we do as missionaries a bit about what we believe. I didn't get any numbers becuase we had to race off to catch the bus but when we left Aldo said "If you need anything let me know. Give me a call and we'll do Sunday lunch sometime and talk with more calma, and I have a truck if you need to move anything, if you need a hair cut Rosa lives in Varese and cuts hair." His youngest sister who I think would be down with talking to us a bit, and I am in dire need of a haircut.
So the work of the Lord is great, moral of the story. We had an absolutely beautiful conference yesterday and had interviews with President Wolfgramm. So great. Love that man and I love how he makes me think. I feel like I've learned so freaky much about the gospel this year. I don't know what I was doing before. And it makes me excited to be able to someday have a family that I'll be able to teach the gospel to, for reals. It's like Carrie always talked aboout both how everything she had done or learned she felt prepared her to be a mother and how serving a mission just prepared her for everything.
Well, I love you all. The babiest bad I wont be around the table with you today, or sleeping in front of the fireplace with Alice after, but we have time still. I'll make do with the great pizza I plan on eating at 1:30
xoxo
sorella bush
I wrote like ten letters last night so I'm kind of lettered out, but I love you all dearly. Sorella Beutler is a little sicky again so it's not been the most normal week, but we had a beautiflu miracle/adventure I will tell you about last Thursday/Sunday. His name is Aldo.
There is a city called Angera in our area, and according to Gabriele the missionaries hadn't been there for at least ten years, so we've been wanting to go for awhile. We finally got ourselves organized last Thursday at we're waiting at the bus stop. This 55 year-old man starts talking with us. We just sort of chat about how he hasn't taken the bus in 40 some years but drove into town with his sister to get his hand checked at the doctor because a rock fell and crushed it (yes Italians will tell you their life story if you just listen).
We then tell him a bit about who we are and what we do. Get on the bus. We head toward the back where there are more seats and hope he comes too. But he's hanging out at the front of the bus for awhile and we're worried. Then he suddenly runs off the bus, goes and buys a ticket, comes back and sits by us.
So we keep chatting it up. About his mother who died six months ago, about the home they have in Taranto, where they're from, about his four year-old daughter. We tell him about the Book of Mormon and how there's life after this one. Then he pulls out of this funny little plastic briefcase an invitation to his daughter's birthday party that Sunday. We give him a plan of salvation pamphlet. He gets off the bus, we head on to Angera.
Sunday, we obviously go to the birthday party. We get to his town, where I've never set foot. We head to the only open place, a bar/tabaccaria and ask how to get to Via San Michele. And no one knows. So they ask what we're looking for, and I said, "Um...a family, his name is Aldo."
This bad a guy in a wheel chair tries to pull up a map on his phone but can't get to the internet, all eight people in the bar are trying to figure out if any of them know the via and the people that work there look for their map of the area.
Meanwhile wheelchair man heads over to the adjoining room and comes back and asks if we're looking for Aldo the mechanic. I tell him I think so, and he tells us to go down the next street, down a hill, up another hill, past a cemetery and then we'll take the road that runs off to the left and that's where Aldo lives.
We go, we make it, and we spend a few hours with a handfull of 5 year-olds from preschool but mostly Aldo's 7,000 siblings and nieces. He is one of 11 children! I got to talk to a few of them about what we do as missionaries a bit about what we believe. I didn't get any numbers becuase we had to race off to catch the bus but when we left Aldo said "If you need anything let me know. Give me a call and we'll do Sunday lunch sometime and talk with more calma, and I have a truck if you need to move anything, if you need a hair cut Rosa lives in Varese and cuts hair." His youngest sister who I think would be down with talking to us a bit, and I am in dire need of a haircut.
So the work of the Lord is great, moral of the story. We had an absolutely beautiful conference yesterday and had interviews with President Wolfgramm. So great. Love that man and I love how he makes me think. I feel like I've learned so freaky much about the gospel this year. I don't know what I was doing before. And it makes me excited to be able to someday have a family that I'll be able to teach the gospel to, for reals. It's like Carrie always talked aboout both how everything she had done or learned she felt prepared her to be a mother and how serving a mission just prepared her for everything.
Well, I love you all. The babiest bad I wont be around the table with you today, or sleeping in front of the fireplace with Alice after, but we have time still. I'll make do with the great pizza I plan on eating at 1:30
xoxo
sorella bush
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
unthinkable
Guys, the almost unthinkable is happening and I get one more transfer in Varese with Sorella Beutler. I was pretty sure I was staying but I was just really nervous. I couldn't imagine anyone else being right for Varese or Sorella Beutler right now. So here's the simple answer—we stay! Ha! Sorella Beutler is still super hard on herself and has a hard time not comparing herself with everybody else Italian-wise and I really do worry about her and what will happen when we're not companions. Pian piano.
It's been kind of a nutso week. Here are some highlights for you:
GINA! We finally saw beautiful Gina! We used the excuse that one of us might be leaving and she said, "Sorry I haven't responded in ages I've been soooo bust with exams and school I haven't even seen my best friend!" So we met up and read the 2nd half of 2nd Nefi 4 together and had a beautiful lesson talking about hearts and temptation and relying on the Lord. There was a nice little pause and we were all sitting there and she said, "Can I ask you guys a question"
"What do you do to feel God when you pray? Because I don't think it's ever happened for like it has for you, I mean sometimes I think I feel something, but sometimes I feel like I'm just talking..'"
We had a beautiful discussion on prayer, and she told us that she thinks it's destiny we met, because she wasn't even supposed to go out the day we stopped her per strada and how she feels like her life really has changed and she feels best when we're with her and she reads the bom. Srsly, this is what I live for! If only we could see her more regularly! Really, she's so wonderful. (and in the closing prayer asked that we would both stay in Varese a bit longer..:)) Now Yeimy (Jaime). Our other beautiful 21 year old who has been so hard to see lately. But Friday morning before weekly planning Sorella Beutler was like let's go do a giro by the old house, get out and talk to some peeps and check the mail. SO we go and after we check the mail I was like I should go make sure there's no air building up in the radiators so the heat isn't blocked on the lower floors, blah blah, we go and decide to carry home this funny end table that we needed to put our microwave on. We we're carrying this table between us and I'm holding it behind my back and I look across the street and see Jaime, so I yell to her, she comes over, we chat, set up an appointment for Saturday, went and saw her, it was beautiful, and at the end I asked if we could do anything for her, or at least pray for for her and she starts crying and tells us no one ever asks her that. we're hoping to see her again Saturday because she freaky needs the gospel. Found some cool potentials in my efforts to be better at talking to people between appointments and plans and stuff, speriamo bene, people here just work way too much.
And did I tell you about Giuseppe? Who's from Sicily and showed up in church last Sunday? He's been studying with the Sorelle there for 8 months and works all the time up here in Lombardia so he missed a baptismal date in September and then was always like, well, we'll talk about in when I come back, and then he's back for maybe trhee days and comes north again.... SO We've taught him twice, took him to stake conference in Milano ands set a tentative baptismal date for the 22 of December. He's kind of a funny guy but I think he's sincere about the church and LOVES how family is central to everything, I think he's maybe mid 40s and really wants a family, refocus his priorities. Moments like Giuseppe walking into church make me feel like maybe heavenly father really is ok with the work I'm doing and throws me a little bonus.
I don't know why but I've been feeling a little discouraged lately, I don't know, something's just off and I'm not super happy with my work but I feel too weak to change too fast, I don't know how to explain myself, I'm happy I just feel like I could be doing more and I don't really know what I need to do. I think I need to spend more time on my knees because HF knows exactly what this area leaves.
We had gelato with Luca on Monday night when he finished work and before we headed to our appointment in church. We had already texted him that we were both staying and we were talking to him and he was like but this means they'll probably send you off right before Christmas. I said "NO, subito DOPO," and he said "What," and I told him when transfers were next and he was like "SO YOU'LL BE HERE FOR CHRISTMAS?!"
He was so excited, made me feel great. They like me! They really really like me! Branch President Carnieletto was super contento, he even said so twice. I guess he hasn't always loved the missionaries but somehow we've won him over and HE'S started thinking a lot more about missionary work and organized everything for us to do a mostra in centro with members a week from Sunday with some sort of message about Christmas.
The weather is beautiful these days, all of a sudden kind of warm and the trees are still in peak color, if only I still had my bike...
BTW—one year on Friday? Whaaa?? I've been putting a name tag on everyday for a year, whoa, how strange and beautiful.
Did I tell you about Giudi? The girl we teach english to? 22 from como and wonderful. We've had some really beautiful lessons with her about the gospel too, and she came to church on fast and testimony meeting with her friend and she might come this week to see what it's like when it's not open mic Sunday. She's super smart and we already have really interesting conversations and we can see her heart opening little by little. We're planning on a heading to Como together for a p-day this transfer.
You all sound busy and happy, I heard the new James Bond was awesome, a little jealous, maybe. Luca played us the Adele single from it, man she's good. Mom you're almost a master! Are you guys doing the turkey trot this year?
We have to go to Milano next Wednesday, so I don't know when we'll p-day next week, and Saturday we're having Thanksgiving with Augusta and her fam and Luca obviously and who knows who else will be there. The food will be much better than last year fo sho. love you all!
I'll try and send pics next week,
be good! be happy!
xoxo sorella cespuglio
It's been kind of a nutso week. Here are some highlights for you:
GINA! We finally saw beautiful Gina! We used the excuse that one of us might be leaving and she said, "Sorry I haven't responded in ages I've been soooo bust with exams and school I haven't even seen my best friend!" So we met up and read the 2nd half of 2nd Nefi 4 together and had a beautiful lesson talking about hearts and temptation and relying on the Lord. There was a nice little pause and we were all sitting there and she said, "Can I ask you guys a question"
"What do you do to feel God when you pray? Because I don't think it's ever happened for like it has for you, I mean sometimes I think I feel something, but sometimes I feel like I'm just talking..'"
We had a beautiful discussion on prayer, and she told us that she thinks it's destiny we met, because she wasn't even supposed to go out the day we stopped her per strada and how she feels like her life really has changed and she feels best when we're with her and she reads the bom. Srsly, this is what I live for! If only we could see her more regularly! Really, she's so wonderful. (and in the closing prayer asked that we would both stay in Varese a bit longer..:)) Now Yeimy (Jaime). Our other beautiful 21 year old who has been so hard to see lately. But Friday morning before weekly planning Sorella Beutler was like let's go do a giro by the old house, get out and talk to some peeps and check the mail. SO we go and after we check the mail I was like I should go make sure there's no air building up in the radiators so the heat isn't blocked on the lower floors, blah blah, we go and decide to carry home this funny end table that we needed to put our microwave on. We we're carrying this table between us and I'm holding it behind my back and I look across the street and see Jaime, so I yell to her, she comes over, we chat, set up an appointment for Saturday, went and saw her, it was beautiful, and at the end I asked if we could do anything for her, or at least pray for for her and she starts crying and tells us no one ever asks her that. we're hoping to see her again Saturday because she freaky needs the gospel. Found some cool potentials in my efforts to be better at talking to people between appointments and plans and stuff, speriamo bene, people here just work way too much.
And did I tell you about Giuseppe? Who's from Sicily and showed up in church last Sunday? He's been studying with the Sorelle there for 8 months and works all the time up here in Lombardia so he missed a baptismal date in September and then was always like, well, we'll talk about in when I come back, and then he's back for maybe trhee days and comes north again.... SO We've taught him twice, took him to stake conference in Milano ands set a tentative baptismal date for the 22 of December. He's kind of a funny guy but I think he's sincere about the church and LOVES how family is central to everything, I think he's maybe mid 40s and really wants a family, refocus his priorities. Moments like Giuseppe walking into church make me feel like maybe heavenly father really is ok with the work I'm doing and throws me a little bonus.
I don't know why but I've been feeling a little discouraged lately, I don't know, something's just off and I'm not super happy with my work but I feel too weak to change too fast, I don't know how to explain myself, I'm happy I just feel like I could be doing more and I don't really know what I need to do. I think I need to spend more time on my knees because HF knows exactly what this area leaves.
We had gelato with Luca on Monday night when he finished work and before we headed to our appointment in church. We had already texted him that we were both staying and we were talking to him and he was like but this means they'll probably send you off right before Christmas. I said "NO, subito DOPO," and he said "What," and I told him when transfers were next and he was like "SO YOU'LL BE HERE FOR CHRISTMAS?!"
He was so excited, made me feel great. They like me! They really really like me! Branch President Carnieletto was super contento, he even said so twice. I guess he hasn't always loved the missionaries but somehow we've won him over and HE'S started thinking a lot more about missionary work and organized everything for us to do a mostra in centro with members a week from Sunday with some sort of message about Christmas.
The weather is beautiful these days, all of a sudden kind of warm and the trees are still in peak color, if only I still had my bike...
BTW—one year on Friday? Whaaa?? I've been putting a name tag on everyday for a year, whoa, how strange and beautiful.
Did I tell you about Giudi? The girl we teach english to? 22 from como and wonderful. We've had some really beautiful lessons with her about the gospel too, and she came to church on fast and testimony meeting with her friend and she might come this week to see what it's like when it's not open mic Sunday. She's super smart and we already have really interesting conversations and we can see her heart opening little by little. We're planning on a heading to Como together for a p-day this transfer.
You all sound busy and happy, I heard the new James Bond was awesome, a little jealous, maybe. Luca played us the Adele single from it, man she's good. Mom you're almost a master! Are you guys doing the turkey trot this year?
We have to go to Milano next Wednesday, so I don't know when we'll p-day next week, and Saturday we're having Thanksgiving with Augusta and her fam and Luca obviously and who knows who else will be there. The food will be much better than last year fo sho. love you all!
I'll try and send pics next week,
be good! be happy!
xoxo sorella cespuglio
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
illegal email!
I'M STAYING IN VARESE FOR
CHRISTMAS!!! Hip hip! Sorella Beutler and I are starting transfer three
together next week...
love love
sor.cespuglio
love love
sor.cespuglio
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